Immature love??!... explain

... I was going through Ruben's blog, a 16years old boy from Ipoh - and what i saw his perils of love written all over his page. If you know me close enough people, u would definitely know how would my face looked like- reading through every sentence... NO, NO I'm not an anti 'LOVE' person, and NO, NO I'm not against people who are in 'LOVE'... I just find it difficult to digest at the age of 16 what do you understand about 'LOVE', i would be grateful if someone who is in the age group of 13-18 please enlighten me.

My only argument is that 1) Relationships are expensive, Top ups, Movies, Dining, Birthday/Anniversary Gifts...etc. I wonder how do you guys finance your relationships? 2) Relationships need lotsa time... lots of it to understand each other, How do you make time in between School, Tuition, Family and Friends, I wonder? 3) Most relationship doesn't have a fairytale ending. How do you handle this, I wonder? Most relationships ends up sacrificing a Good Friend for their relationship, in whatever circumstances it be... which you will actually realise at a point of time where it's to late to apologise.

So Yeah I Wonder... how can love be true at and adolescent age, where all can you do is to lie to make some extra money to finance this relationship, lie to get some time just to spend some time with each other to the people who have loved you all all your life... and sacrificing a friend in the name of love, is like cutting a part the other half of you in the name of stupidity! ...

I am looking forward for your thoughts, it might give me an answer. I might change my mind... try your luck people...

Signing off With lotsa Love and Regards,
Ram p Gengayah


(Ruben, do not misunderstand me. It's a general topic which i choose after reading yours... Good luck in your relationship BTW... Don't forget to text me if you did read this piece of text :-p )